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Pick up is not a logical science like nerds "PUG's" try to portray
also you are better off going out with a guy or two who are really good with women then reading/watching seminars dvd's etc...
Imgaine going out with a guy who lays 10 women a month effortlessly and he spends 1/4 of the time a guru does(I know a guy like this, he only goes out twice a week on average). Supposedly the top guru's say this how many girls they fuck. Is it possible? sure if you in a different city/country every month it's not that hard at all to bang 10 different women a month.
Something PUG's don't tell ya, its easier to get laid abroad then here. Why do you think RSD guys were getting laid left and right in Alex Asia bootcamps? all you gotta do is say you from U.S.A, and these chicks will come flocking hoping for a green card.
Now imagine pulling 10 chicks in a medium/small state (I.E. Indiana) that's a lot harder. Even an "average" gamer can do well going to L.A. or New York, once he calibrates his game, it's easier in a bigger town cause New York has 10X as many women as Indiana.
Don't be fooled by these PUG's, their going to Russia, Africa, and China, it's not that hard to get laid over there at all.
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Yup,
Honestly it didn't surprise me that Tim go laid a lot in the states, the guy isn't that bad looking and his accent probably garners a lot of interest, women are attracted to something that's from the norm, they use too
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Eh...
Honestly in all my travels the girls in small towns are 10x easier than the broads in these big cities.
There's thousands of quality, cool dudes in the big cities for girls to choose from. You go to a small town and it's easy to be the coolest motherfucker she's ever come across. Like you're a movie star.
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Agree with the post above me ^... I spent my young life, living in a city with 8m+ people in, suddenly I moved to a lot smaller city, in a more rural area, and my confidence was just ridiculous, I'd been around great looking guys, guys as rich as fuck, the best of the best live in the city, and here I am, in this smaller town, it's easier to be alpha, as I was prepared with big city life, I was used to making myself seen, I also had more value, coming from a big city. Just had to make a few minor changes, and tone things down a bit, I find outside big cities, MM and stuff just make you look a cock. 60YOC works better in environments like that
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I guess it both ways but trust me, If you go to a town in Idaho were there 6 thousand people, all it takes is for you to bang one chick and the whole town will know, it can fuck up your deal
while in New York you can keep fucking chicks like a mad man
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i agree. and i like to be in big cities, the gals are hotter.
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While agreeable, you're met with a problem. Duplication.
Not all guys know a natural player like that. And for the ones that do, how many of them are willing to take newbies and teach them the ropes?
The PUA community is desirable to a lot of guys because it has the "come as you are" attitude.
Let's take a step back.
Imagine a world without the community and struggling guys adopted your mentality. If they suck, they need to find a guy (like the one you described) in order to get good.
So, they go searching around, find one, ask him to break down his process into bite-size, teachable chunks...and possibly go out with them to show them how it's done.
The natural can probably handle one or two guys, but imagine 10. Imagine 30 guys want to learn from him. He can't do this all day for free. makeoutmakeoutmakeoutmakeoutmakeout's gotta eat.
So, he charges them what he feels he's worth...and also what the guy thinks is reasonable. Dare I say in-field workshop?
Imagine 200 guys wanted to learn. How could he possibly take them all out? Dare I say an audio or DVD?
Oh, wait a second...did I just describe how the community began? Woops.
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How many Guru's are "naturals"?
Most have confessed to being former Afc's even guys like Zan Pierrion/Hypnotica/Gunwitch/ (just to name a few)
At the end of the day a "noob" is better of learning from the kid who has had a grasps with women since he was 4 feet tall, then some guy like Mehow (nothing against Mehow but come on, the over-analysis is mental masturbation at it's finest)
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This is true, only to a certain degree. At the top of the food chain, the proclaimed pioneers learned as any other natural would have learned. And these pioneers taught students who eventually felt they were good enough to teach.
But they can't teach the same thing, or else the students will want to learn from the master.
So, when it comes down to gaining business advantage...lets take Mystery vs. his student, Mehow, for example...in order to get any sort of edge, Mehow can't say "I learned from Mystery. I'll teach you everything he taught me." Instead, he has to market and teach an adapted (in his opinion, better) style.
And this is where the marketing hype battle begins.
Regarding the whole bit about confessing to be former AFC's. It may be true, but it's also a classic sales copy tactic which hits on the whole "If I can do it, so can you" bit.
It relates to the prospective customer and has them thinking, "Wow, this guy was just like me...maybe even worse! If he can do it, so can I. Here's my credit card #."
It's sad, but it's true. And it works.
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Absolutely........if you just have a decent haircut.........girls in small towns will worship your cock..........
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I see the marketing ploy and Mehow is one hell of a marketer, even though his "infield insiders" are wack (I got better infield footage of me on my camara phone LOL) to his fancy smancy website
@the end of the can you justify paying 2 grand for a bootcamp with Mehow or even 10 grand for one on one with Mystery?(plus there rumors going around that Mehow is gay and that his "skills" aren't as good as he claims, by a couple of his former workers)
I can not
I rather posts an ad on Criaglists asking someone to teach me pick up for $50 and a free drink and you most likely to meet someone from your local neighborhood who is just as good with women as them or even better
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His infield insiders is complete shit. He's doing his guests a major disservice by showcasing them on those videos.
And your $50 + free drink method might work, but then again, you don't get to see any credentials...and it's probably not something you would recommend a newbie friend to try because it's a crap shoot.
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That's good. But, why did you post a picture of a fat chick bent over behind a chick that I initially thought was a dude?
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You can waste less time by just doing a hand mutual carressing test. If she doesn't do it back, move on.
The key words here are mutual and physical. Moves like forcing a kiss may convey aggressiveness but they are not mutual. A phone number is not an IOM. An agreement to meet is not an IOM. Grinding against her ass and molesting her body on the dance floor is not an IOM. Lunging at her for a sloppy makeout is not an IOM. Her grabbing your ass and twisting your nipple is not an IOM. Ask yourself why you are afraid to make an overt physical move.
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